Most women do not appreciate men whose knowledge of sex starts and ends with the climax. There are certain ways by which men can increase the joy of sex for their partners and consequently, for themselves. Here are some tips:
1. Foreplay. You should be starting this while you two are still having dinner. Get your hands on strategic places – under the waistband of her skirt or pants, a brief squeeze on her thigh, a small bite on her ear – just give her a hint of what’s to come later. Once you get to the bedroom, hold back as long as you can and try to give attention to every inch of her.
2. Talk dirty. Sexy dirty, not dirty gross or dirty creepy. Just whisper what you plan on doing to her and the things you have fantasized doing to her in the past. Showing how beautiful you find certain parts of her by using naughty words to describe them can also turn her on.
3. Show your appreciation. Tell her what you like also and show your appreciation in words whenever she does something with her hands or her tongue. Most women have admitted that they like men who grunt and moan, as long as the sounds are real.
4. Make her watch you play with yourself before the actual getting together. Women like looking at men while they touch and play with themselves before passing on the baton to her. If she wants to copy what you just did, let her. Chances are, you will both enjoy it.